WTF?!?!?!?!?!
So I have a big dilemma. So you all know about the new guy. He is really sweet but he is moving a little too fas for me and honestly it is starting to creep me out. So about two weeks ago when we were on the phone before we hung up I swore he said "love You" I just kinda ignored it and said bye. So all that night I was trying to think of things that might sound like that and maybe I just misunderstood him. But the other night on the phone I heard it clear as day. Now it just totally creeped me out. After he said it I was like BYE. Now tonight we have a date and I don't know if I should bring it up or not. I mean I don't want to call him out but on the other hand I am saying to myself WTF I have only know you for a little over a month. Does anyone else think this is weird. I heard from one of his friends that he can be kinda clingy. If he is really saying this shit to me he is out the door. It just seems like he is desperate.I need some advice on how to approach this. And also I was planning on go away for the night with my girlfriends on Saturday night and I was telling the new dude about it and he was like upset that he wasn't going to see me. I think he is already smothering me. WHY ME!!!
posted by safegurl @ 9:23 AM
1 Comments:
I think you should lay it all out on the table for him. Start with an affirmation, that you have enjoyed the time spent with him, but that you didn't get out of one relationship to jump into another and that you need time to enjoy just being you. Tell him that you aren't ready for love and commitments, etc. and that if he can't handle that then you understand. From reading your blog it seems like you need to focus on you. I would tell him that too.
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